Restless by Design
More and more people in recovery are discovering they’re ADHD. Restless by Design explores the compelling reasons behind this connection, and how our natural ability as High Perceivers can help in every aspect of life. Looking at ADHD and recovery through lived experience reveals insights that challenge outdated assumptions — and it’s fun and fascinating.
Episodes

Dec 22, 2025
Dec 22, 2025
7 min
If you’re ADHD, ADHD-adjacent, or wired for rebellion, this episode is for you. Some of us learned to treat our amazing natural traits like danger. Let’s undo that.

Dec 12, 2025
Dec 12, 2025
8 min
We think appeasement is “being nice,” but it’s actually the quiet habit of shrinking so everyone else can stay comfortable.This episode looks at where it starts, why it sticks, and what recovery feels like when you finally stop smoothing the world.

Dec 5, 2025
Dec 5, 2025
6 min
Do We Even Need Both? What if your creativity already knows how to speak for itself?

Nov 24, 2025
Nov 24, 2025
3 min
ADHD traits are worth billions to the self-help industry, but we're the ones who can pivot when the map disappears. Unmask and enjoy the show!

Nov 13, 2025
Nov 13, 2025
4 min
A love letter to the right-brain/left-brain two-step and the art of feeling it all without losing it.

Nov 4, 2025
Nov 4, 2025
6 min
Not a self-help episode — a survival spell.Recovery, emotion, and a little apocalypse humor.

Oct 27, 2025
Oct 27, 2025
3 min
The body and the body politic rarely heal in logical steps.Healing arrives like medicine — unexpected, embodied, and real.

Oct 16, 2025
Oct 16, 2025
4 min
People call ADHD a gift. I’m not so sure. Here’s how to live with high perception without being consumed by it.

Oct 7, 2025
Oct 7, 2025
4 min
The Peter Pan Promise of Patriarchy lets men stay boys while women pay the price. Here’s how “boys will be boys” becomes “men will be monsters” — and why knowing matters.

Sep 28, 2025
Sep 28, 2025
5 min
We’ve been told ADHD is all about dopamine. Not so fast.The real missing link? What I call The Tiger Effect.Once you hear it, you’ll never see ADHD the same way again.







